Life’s experiences....

The most beautiful thing that can happen to one is selfless give and take of love, care & togetherness... Not physical....but an emotional, spiritual level of oneness.... where two personaities can be poles apart, but understand each other's psychological needs... And where they can give without asking and take without obliging... Just pure understanding of the need of being there for each other!!! Such is the definition of sanctitude!!!


--VGP

Life’s experiences....

You cannot expect anyone to change for you....unless they want to do it for you...

Being completely accepting and Learning to live under the given situation, is the first step towards perseverence...

Once you get yourself to that state.... Right - wrong, fair - unfair, you - me nothing matters...

- VGP

Unspoken Conversations...

Some people feel the need to express themselves very candidly.... Good best  bad ugly... everything has its existence  in being expressed.... I wonder if any relationship in this world between two strangers could be built without one expressing with the other their thoughts and feelings....

And then you meet people in life...People!!!! Each having their own desire to be heard....to be spoken!! But each covered with masks designed by this world... And wired with pre conceived notions and rules.. But still trying to fit in to the needs of each other in the relationship....

Where one is content in not expressing.... And one is just not content with what he gets to express.....

There are times when you have so much to say....so many random tghts running around in the mind.... So many emotions flying around.... Looking  for someone to settle on to...When what you need is pure expression of the whole deal of chaos inside you.... A conversation without judgement.... Without time bounds... without boundaries of the relationship.... Without you needing to edit your thoughts to fit into some already made norms....

And all you get is a person enough to listen to you but with your edited tghts....a person enough you have, but you need to summarize the whole of your storm in just two drops of rain... Coz all you have is a person enough, but with a divided ear for just a couple of moments.... And that is all in the name of  spoken conversation we have in our life...

....and then what we are left with us abundance of Unspoken Conversations.... That are forever sprinting in your mind....emotions talking to your thoughts...and thoughts understanding your emotions.... In the end there's no end...but a whole  lot of unsaid unheard conversations....waiting to someday be meeting someone who they can connect in that different way.... And look upto for being heard.... But these unspoken Conversations again fall for the trap.... They give away a few...allowed to be spoken parts of their life..... And are again left with a mountain load of unspoken Conversations.....